What happens when a woman gives herself permission to pause, heal, and breathe again? I had to find out for myself.

In 2021, I reached my breaking point. My heart was shattered, my emotions were unstable, and I no longer trusted my own decisions. I was angry, confused, and overwhelmed—and I knew something had to change. I cried out to God for direction, and in His mercy, He showed me a vision: a stronger, freer, more grounded version of me.

That was the moment I realized I had work to do. I whispered to myself, “I’m going to choose me.” I stepped back from the chaos, committed to healing, and leaned into God’s presence. That decision became the seed for 100 Dates to Self Discovery—a faith-based solo dating journal designed to help women heal, grow, and embrace God’s vision for love.